Friday, January 20, 2012

Flashing spotlights and glittering costumes, cool special effects and half-a-dozen costume changes are all things one might encounter when attending a sold-out concert with the name of latest pop-star phenomenon attached. Today’s culture is brimming with candidates who are prime targets for young minds to clasp onto and “look up to” or as the term is more commonly coined, they are the “idols” of today’s young people. One scandal after another has befallen many of the young starlets of the millennium era, many of whom have become household names through their Disney Channel alter-egos – namely Miley Cyrus who most people might know as Hannah Montana, or the long-ago former Disney darling Lindsey Lohan. The fact that these girls have made headlines of the worst kind is not only a sobering statistic but also an unfortunate reality for these young adults because it seems as if they have no one in their lives who genuinely care for their well-being, and sadly, all that is likely to lead to, is heartbreak.

About two months ago I plopped down in front of the television and watched the entire three-hour run of an awards show (it is a good thing I don’t do this on a night-to-night basis because as weird as it may sound, it’s exhausting to do so). Among the glittering splendor of the thousands of dollars worth of evening wear and dazzling, awe-inspiring performances are celebrities who are sitting smack dab in the fantasy world of America’s young people who have blind adoration for these stars. Too many girls today find a role model among the Hollywood stars and to me that is a sad, unfortunate scenario. I do not ever remember idolizing any celeb – but I will admit that I do indulge in poring over PEOPLE magazine, reading about all of the latest fashion trends or movie news. I’d be lying if I said that I’ve never wondered what living a life that the Hollywood elite live is really like – or even a life with money where each penny doesn’t count, but I also know that money and all the fame in the world cannot bring happiness. Instead most of the time it winds up being more of a burden than seeing any good come out of it. Too many names in Hollywood have been brought down to a new kind of low that was only after they achieved fame – after they were able to buy anything they wanted, or anything that money could materialistically buy. These cultural idols can do no wrong to their devoted fans and as a result, they are put up on a pedestal of sorts. They not only strive to look like them – from the clothes they wear to the latest haircut and size zero bodies, but they also actually want to be their idol. And, that is just not healthy.

There are women in the media’s eye whom I do admire and I am certainly surrounded by a select few in my life who I can look up to, not the least of which is my mother. In the spotlight world of entertainment, I’ve always admired Christian pop artist Rebecca St. James for her beautiful faith and wonderful stand on purity. The ladies of Point of Grace are also another group who are known in the Christian realm of recording artists. They are not a trio whom I have drawn as much inspiration from but I have found more than one treasure in their music. More recently in the media’s eye is Denver Bronco quarterback Tim Tebow. The one guy who has captured America's attention as a person who has values and isn't afraid to stand up for his beliefs - no matter how far we've come, it proves that we still want someone like this to root for. I know very little about him since I was unfamiliar with his name, but from what I’ve seen and read, I applaud him on his journey to stand apart from the world’s temptations – and to defy what the masses claim is politically correct. For his sake – and all the youngsters who might be inspired by him, I wish him the best of luck. These are examples of media figures who are inspiring movements that we can get behind. It is the teeny-bopper artists that I find myself at odds with the most. While the Jonas Brothers were at the height of their popularity, I was constantly scoffing at their music, style (what was with that hair?) and sense of moral direction, then I’d have to constantly remind myself that I was most definitely not their target audience – it still didn’t stop me from shaking my head and wondering what the thousands of screaming girls saw in them, and what were they thinking? For a while the brothers were vocal about their stand on dating but I’ve a hard time believing that is still intact now that they have the latest Hollywood actress’ hanging off their arms. 

One of the families that attends my church were once missionaries to Africa and have four children, two of whom are young teenagers – both girls. Their mother once shared with me that she wasn’t about to buy her daughters anything Hannah Montana because she didn’t like how the phenomenon presented itself. That might seem like an overprotective parent to some people but look at what Miley has become – look at the image she wants to present. This opinion of mine is based primarily on statements the actress herself has made, not second-hand gossip. Seeing such reckless, immoral behavior is disheartening. Not only are these girls misusing the trust (misplaced as it is) put in them by their loyal fan base, they are also disrespecting themselves – through their choice of dress, their attitude and the persona they adopt while on stage.

Do you all know what this phenomenon is with – dare I even type his name… *gulp* Justin Bieber? If possible, I believe he is more of an “icon” than the JoBros, and while I do not pretend to know why, I do know there are thousands of girl’s who think he’s… well… perfect. As my mother so astutely pointed out (see, mom does know best), he is the “ideal” guy girls assume their Prince Charming should be modeled after – ‘cause he’s dreamy and that is all that matters, right? Wrong. Pop culture might contribute some positive things to our society but mostly I see it as a misleading outlet that is all about immoral activates – from the way the girls dress to the lyrics in songs, rarely does anything good come from mainstream pop culture. And that is a fact.

And, I'm sorry but... I just have to say this: these dudes might want to look in the mirror – the barber should be on speed dial! (WHAT!? Someone needed to say something. *wink*)

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  1. What an immensely awesome post. So, so, so true.

    And thumbs up for FINALLY pointing out the Jonas Bros and Justin Beiber's baaaaaad hair days!!! Come on, people. The latter especially looks like he needs a serious haircut.

    And what I find rather disturbing is how...excuse the word, but "effeminate" the latest pop idols (guys) are. Not making *any* kind of accusation or anything like that, but the image they're giving off is anything but masculine - what happened to rugged...or at least *classy*...manly guys? The fact that all these girls (the next generation of women) are idolizing these soft-looking excuses for teen guys, what does that say? Sure, some of it is a matter of maturity and they'll grow out of part of it, but what they're trained to like as preteens is what's going to partially form their taste for the future. It's just kinda sad, I guess.

    Anyway. Rabbit trail. Great post!!!

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  3. Fabulous, fabulous post! I so agree with everything that you just said =D

    I have never been into the whole fad thing. In fact, I have a tendency to go "anti fad" =D My parents also protected me from idolizing certain Hollywood tweens. I am so thankful that they did.....I don't feel like I missed on anything.

    I do love watching award shows nd pouring over the gowns. And I love occasionally thinking about a life in Hollywood. But it isn't for me. That being said, I do want to do something that gets me in the limelight so I can be a positive example. I have dubbed myself "The anti Kim Kardashian"

    Tebow.....I love the guy. I know a lot about him and I love everything I discover. He is a guy on fire for the Lord. I love it.

    And I agree--what was up with Joe Jonas's hair ;-)

    Okay.....I think that was a long enough comment =D

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  4. Oh my, YES! It scares me when I see little girls walking around with Hannah Montana on their t-shirts... And Justin Bieber? Well, I just don't get the whole "craze" about him...I mean, the first song I heard by him {and the few others I've heard} I thought it was a girl... When I saw a some girls in my youth group fawning over a magazine that was all about "JB" I just rolled my eyes {but not so that they could see me, mind you!} Because, really, he doesn't strike me as "man".
    And you know what's even scarier? That teen guys are looking to him {JUSTIN BIEBER!} for a role model, they try to look like him in the way they dress and...the way their hair is cut {or not cut :P}
    Though, you know what? I kind of prefer Joe and Nick's hair long :)
    Okay, please forgive me for my celebrity bashing... ;)

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  5. Alexandra - thank YOU for your encouraging comments! It is so refreshing to me to have found so many followers and awesome blogger friends who share many of the same convictions as I do.

    You make an excellent point. It is one I should have incorporated into this post. Today, guys are not only NOT godly men, but they are not... "manly." They are "wimps" (so to speak). True some of their teenybopper persona will wear off as they mature, but not all of that soft-spoken characteristic will. To me, it is unfortunate that these are the guys girls assume is the "ideal."

    Excellent points! Thank you.

    Karolina - thanks! =) I am SO glad you stumbled across my blog - and I do hope you stop in again sometime.

    Ella - thanks!

    I cannot remember a time when I looked up to any of the people society claims as "role models." Of course, a lot of them came along when I was well into my teens and their music was not exactly geared towards my age group... but nevertheless, that was not something my parents wanted for me. Like you, I don't regret it.

    Tim Tebow... yeah, I just recently realized that he was the guy who did the anti-abortion commercial with his mom a few years back - goodness that caused quite a scene! He seems like an awesome guy and I hope whatever comes, he stays true to his convictions - that is the only way he'll be successful in the limelight (or the right "kind of successful").

    I see the occasional award show but don't watch all of them. Sometimes I watch the Oscars, sometimes I only watch the last half hour - it just depends. But I do watch most of the country awards. It is fun to see all the glittering gowns and find the ones that are the classiest - sometimes that is really hard!

    (Joe Jonas and others in his circle DID need a new 'do - or maybe they still do. What Taylor Swift ever saw in him, I'll never know. ;D Oh, yeah, and the Kardashian's... cannot stand them!)

    You can leave a long comment anytime you want, girl. I love 'em. =)

    Trinka - not only is most of the "Hannah Montana" line of clothing immodest but really, who needs that!? And if we thought that was bad, have you seen Miley Cyrus' last line for Wal*Mart? Yeah, it was REALLY bad.

    Justin Bieber... you and me both. I DO NOT get that at all - he does have a "higher" voice when singing. I've heard him sing on a couple of specials on TV and yeah, he does not have a voice.

    Trust me: everything you are saying is the truth. Like you, I just wish that so many teens wouldn't look to these celebs as roles models. That is what is sad.

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  6. I love Tebow. I wish there were more celebrities like him.

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  7. So true, Juju! I wish more celebs were of a positive influence in the media because sad as it may be, there are teens who do look to them as role models - and sometimes it is because they have no one in their life to respect.

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  8. Good post. =)

    No mere human should be a role model or "idol" for anyone, because they are just that -- human, and likely to make mistaks. Sadly, fame often leads to ruin -- a combination of popularity and money can ruin all but those who have hard-hitting Christian friends willing to talk truth and remind the celebrity that they are not the "be all, and end of all."

    I flinch when kids become stars, mostly because I know what is going to happen to them as they grow older: in a selfish culture, where they are trained to be even more selfish, only unhappiness lies ahead.

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  9. Seeing kids become "stars" is unfortunate because they have neither the maturity (or most of them don't) or inclination to be a positive influence in whatever genre they might have made a name for themselves. I do think there is nothing wrong with some being considered a role model in some ways (i.e., we can stand apart in standing up for what we believe in) but I also see a risk in people like Miley Cyrus' parents who saw nothing wrong with her posing nearly nude for a photo shoot or Lindsay Lohan's terrible life.

    Money can ruin people - and it has. As you say: throw in fame and you really have a recipe for disaster.

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